Changing Yourself: The Power of Self-Affirming Declarations Part III
August 3rd, 2008 · Filed Under: Beliefs · Faith · Goals · Identity · Imagination · Visualization
Children have such wonderful imaginations. Get around a little kid for awhile and you will inevitably get the sense that anything is possible for them…at all of 5, 6, 7 years old!
They are teachers, firefighters, policemen, soldiers, presidents, celebrities. Their imaginations are usually completely unbridled! And they usually have no fear either. They will try and do just about anything. They exhibit amazing confidence and determination until…
Ahhhhh, yes. Until.
Until the adult world begins to squeeze them into that teeny, weeny constrictive box. Their dreams become systematically dismantled. They hear the word "no" over and over again. They become ridiculed for their goals of wanting to be, do, and become more.
In essence: They become adults.
It’s sad but true. Fear overcomes faith. Reality replaces dreams. Mediocre becomes the highest standard for earning the measliest of raises.
But what happened to that childlike imagination? What happened to believing we could become whoever we wanted to be?
I will be bold as to say it never went away. It lies in all us, albeit dormant for many.
I sincerely believe everyone was brought into the world for a reason. Each of us has unique abilities that were meant to be contributed for the betterment of the world around us. I am a man of faith, so I believe that God put me here for a reason and that he has prepared specific things for me to do.
But for all the reasons I am writing this blog, I have my "hang-ups," the adult issues of living in a world where it isn’t always cool to think so differently from your neighbor, rock the boat, or trip up the status quo. You can read about some of my challenges in The Before Story…The Starting Point for Change.
So what to do…
How about getting back to dreaming and imagining like a child? Afterall, that ability never went away, though it may take some coaxing to come back for some.
I’ve been talking about affirmations, self-declarations, "I Am" statements, and the like. I guess to be brutally honest, it comes down to being like a kid again.
Who cares if whatever you’re declaring isn’t happening now? It could, couldn’t it?
Who cares if I’m not that kind of person today? I could be someday, couldn’t I?
And if I or anyone else is living a mediocre or unfulfilled existence right now, then isn’t it possible to believe that the only way is up??? Or would is it bettter to go down a few more levels until we’re six feet under?
So, I am now entering the Dream Zone. Yes, DREAM. As in IMAGINATION.
Here’s who I am…
I am creative.
I am an entrepreneur.
I am a man with a mission.
I am a man discoving his purpose.
I am a communicator.
I am a networker.
I am an artist.
I am a wordsmith.
I am an influencer.
I am a child of God.
I am growing.
I am determined.
I am courageous.
I am confident.
I am a leader.
When I look up my name in the dictionary I see:
"A man determined to overcome all odds to fulfill his mission and purpose in life. Bright, energetic, and highly creative. A person of great influence. A leader. Courageous and willing to go after whatever he wants no matter how difficult."
Many affirmations are declarations of what is already true, but perhaps forgotten or buried under years of neglect. Other affirmations are declarations of attributes that are sought after.
And if the world has beaten the dreamer out of any of us, many affirmations could very well be the bridge back to who we were destined to become when we were placed on this planet in the first place.
I am only limited by the scope of my imagination.
So dream, and dream BIG.





August 3rd, 2008 at 7:11 am
“I sincerely believe everyone was brought into the world for a reason. Each of us has unique abilities that were meant to be contributed for the betterment of the world around us. I am a man of faith, so I believe that God put me here for a reason and that he has prepared specific things for me to do.”
Your blog always touches my heart as I am sure it does for many. Possibly one of the many reasons you were put here?
August 3rd, 2008 at 4:52 pm
Hey Jeff, I really appreciate that. Thanks! If I touched one heart, then I feel exceedingly pleased!
August 10th, 2008 at 5:25 pm
David..
Your blog has touched more than “one” heart..
There is some real powerful stuff in all your writings.
I has always been amazed how the power of a Dream and the power of Imagination, especially in the mind of a child, knows no boundaries.. knows no constraints..
We must “be” before we can “do”…
And we can “do” only to the extent to which we “are”…
And what we “are” depends upon what we “think.” (ie: dream and imagine)
I too believe the “power” is within us all laying dormant as I have personally witnessed incredible changes in personality from having encouraged others to work on their “vision” and to re-ignite that childlike imagination that we have all been blessed with by creating their own “reach for the stars - vision statement”.
Kudos on a great post
John
August 10th, 2008 at 10:04 pm
Hey John,
Thanks! I really appreciate the encouragement. I like the way you unpack this further…very powerful stuff.
I actually wrote this particular post when I was feeling a great deal of fear and anxiety. When I finished, I felt like a different person. All the fear had lifted and I felt empowered to do anything I set my mind to. Amazing! Having vision really does make a difference.
David